Financial wellbeing is an important element when it comes to leading a happy, balanced life. Yet many people struggle to stay on top of their finances/live within their means – even higher income earners.
Financial worries can cause huge amounts of stress and are one of the top reasons for divorce globally. On top of that: if you are a parent struggling to manage your finances your kids may struggle too… Let’s change that.
While managing your finances (and getting out of debt) can seem overwhelming, with a guide/plan and discipline, it’s very doable (for most). Our post today will walk you through it step by step.
How to take (and stay in) control of your finances?
Personal Finance 101: Visibility
The key to taking and staying in control of your finances is visibility: visibility of what comes in (your income) and what goes out (your expenses). It is not much more complicated than that.
Your income may include:
- Salaries and wages
- Spouse and child support payments
- Investment returns (in the form of interest and/or dividends)
- Rental income (if you rent out a property).
Expenses can be and are being categorized in different ways, depending on who assesses them and for what purpose. Paul and I manage our day-to-day finances by grouping our expenses as follows (in alphabetical order):
- Accommodation and Utilities (including electricity, gas, water, mobile phone/internet)
- Bank fees and Government charges
- Gifts and Donations
- Groceries and Dining
- Health (including medical, dental, physio and other treatments)
- Hygiene (including haircuts, manicures/pedicures, massages)
- Leisure (including hobbies and entertainment)
- Transport and Travel.
Create visibility: Your daily task
To gain (and maintain) visibility of your incomings and outgoings, capture all your income and expenses (no matter whether they are paid in cash, direct debit/credit or credit/debit card) in an application that suits you. It could be as simple as an Excel spreadsheet or an accounting application (including Sorted).
A good time to do that is at the end of each day. It only takes a few minutes, and you will remember what you spent your money on that day. For your cash spend, make sure you check the balance in your records against your actual cash. If it doesn’t match you may have forgotten a transaction.
Create visibility: Your monthly task
At the end of the month, set some time aside to get an understanding of
- how the sum of your expenses compares to your income; and
- how much you are spending in each expense category.
Compare your income and expenses
If your income is higher than your expenses, good news: you are able to make that difference work for you, whether to
- build up your emergency funds,
- save for that trip of a lifetime/deposit for your first home/your kids’ education, or
- invest and build up a passive income stream.
If your income is lower than your expenses, it’s likely no news to you: you live beyond your means and are not paying bills on time/accumulating debt.
Understand your spending
No matter whether you belong to the former or the latter, review each expense category in detail to see what you’re spending your money on. I guarantee this will be eye-opening, especially when you do it the first time around.
Understanding where your money goes is crucial if you want to get out of debt. But even if you live comfortably within your means, it makes sense to review your expenses (at least every once in a while). Life circumstances change, and chances are you are not using your hard-earned money in a way that gives you most value.
Adjust your spending
There are a ton of opportunities to reduce your spending… in each category. Don’t believe us? Check out our 40+ ways to cut your spending and start reigning in your household budget.
Pick the easiest (three to five) opportunities and stick with them for a few months. Then look at the list again and see whether there are other savings opportunities you can add.
Make sure you use what you save to pay off your debt quicker (more on that below) or if you’re one of the lucky ones without debt make that money work for you.
If you cut your spending to pay off debt, you are likely to reach a point when it becomes hard/er. Whenever you reach that point, think about what is more important to you: getting out of debt (as quickly as possible) or doing whatever it is you find hard.
It is a very rewarding feeling when you see your debt diminish (or seeing your savings/investments accumulate) from month to month.
Make a budget
Ensure you also consider expenses that only occur (bi)annually or infrequently.
Compare your budget with your actual spend (and adjust as needed)
Once you have set your budget, at each month-end from that point forward, check how your actual expenses compare to your budget:
- start with the total for each expense category,
- then drill down into the expense categories where you overspent (by heaps).
Determine what caused the overspend and act accordingly:
- Was it a one-off? – For example, an appliance broke down, and you had to get it fixed. Maybe you need to include a contingency for future repairs/replacements.
- Or is the cause of a more ongoing nature? – For example, your groceries bill has increased by $100 a month because everything has just gotten more expensive. You may want to review/adjust your category-budget accordingly and potentially look for opportunities to cut your spending elsewhere.
How to manage/get out of debt (as quickly as possible)?
Growing up in East Germany, debt wasn’t an option: You had to pay someone cash to buy that second-hand TV/car/other luxury items.
In today’s day and age of instant gratification, avoiding debt (in the first place) may sound old-fashioned. And given today’s house prices, you may only be able to afford a place of your own with a mortgage. However, if you do (need to take on debt), at least do it informed.
Before you get into (any) debt
Firstly and most importantly: AVOID IT IF YOU CAN. Don’t get into (more) debt if there are ways around it. For example, could you defer whatever you need the money for and save up for it (by cutting your spending or working two jobs for some time)?
If you can’t avoid debt, here are some key tips which apply no matter what type of debt you take on:
1. Find out what the current Central Bank Rate is in your country.
2. Shop around for the best deal based on your needs. Look for one with
- a low-interest rate (based on the type of debt),
- no or low (set-up and ongoing) fees and charges, and
- the opportunity to pay off faster without being penalized.
3. READ THE FINE PRINT – It may seem tedious, but it can save your butt.
Pending the type of debt, also consider the following:
Why these loans haven’t been banned yet is beyond me. They should be. Why? Charging interest rates of multiple 100% pa is predatory. Plain and simple. What does it mean for you? AVOID THEM LIKE THE PEST.
If your hire purchase comes with an interest-free period don’t just sit on it: Use that interest-free period to repay all (or at least as much as possible).
Vehicle and Personal loans
Some of the best interest rates are offered by peer-to-peer lenders. So if (you think) you have a good credit rating it may be worth approaching a peer-to-peer lender.
Car loan interest rates offered by finance companies attached to car dealers tend to be better than personal loan interest rates offered by banks. So, make sure you shop around.
Always pay your monthly credit card balance ON TIME and IN FULL!!! Put a reminder in your calendar to NEVER MISS THAT PAYMENT.
Banks charge immediately (including a late fee). And once forgotten, you have to pay back your total outstanding balance (not just the closing balance in your last statement) to stop being charged interest. Ouch!!!
Never accept the advertised rate. Negotiate!!! If you don’t want to talk to a myriad of financial institutions consider using a mortgage broker.
Financial institutions tend to offer a higher loan amount than is healthy for you, so before signing on the dotted line, consider whether you can still make the regular monthly repayments and pay for all your other expenses
- on a (temporarily) lower income/on one income only;
- if the interest rates went up (check what interest rates were historically to get an understanding of the interest rate volatility you could be exposed to); and
- if your other expenses went up.
Choose to pay weekly or fortnightly (instead of monthly).
And use any savings you may have to offset your mortgage interest. You still have access to your emergency funds, but while you don’t need them, they will reduce your interest payments.
Make a debt repayment plan and pay off your debt (as quickly as possible)
I spoke about VISIBILITY being key to managing your finances at the beginning of this article, and this is particularly true for any debt. So, if you have debt and struggle to get a handle on it:
First of all, you must be honest with yourself and put all your cards (= debt) on the table. Use an online tool or Excel spreadsheet and list (all) your debt (including the interest rates you pay). It might be very sobering (even scary) what you see but at least you now know what you’re facing.
Follow the above money management tasks and be disciplined. With the money you can save every month, repay your debt:
- Contribute the highest repayment amount you can afford to the one that incurs the highest interest rate. If you’ve got two (or more) with a similar interest rate pay off the smallest debt first – it helps you get into the habit, and a quick tick on the board can be a great motivator.
- Pay (at least) the minimum amount for all your other debt until the debt with the highest interest rate is paid off. Then move on to the debt charging the second-highest interest rate (and so on).
If the going gets tough (and there will be moments on your debt-repayment journey), imagine how relieved you’ll feel once all that debt is off your shoulders. The sacrifices you make now will be so worth it once you can say: I’m debt-free.
Boost your income
If cutting your spending is not enough to move the needle look at ways to boost your income too:
- When did you last ask for a pay-rise? A while ago (or never)? Now is the time to stop being shy.
- Could you work two jobs (for a while) – your normal one plus a side hustle in the evening/on weekends?
- Do you have a partner who doesn’t currently work but could (for example, if your kids are more independent)?
- Do your adult kids work but live rent-free under your roof? Maybe it’s time they chip in (or start living on their own)?
- Do you have a spare room in your home you could rent out short-term or long-term?
- Could you share your car with your neighbors?
By the same token, if you receive any extra income you didn’t expect (for example from your tax return, a bonus payment, a birthday present or inheritance) use this to pay off your debt (faster).
Paying off debt may take a few months, but depending on how much you have accumulated, it can take years. If you manage your finances as per above daily/monthly tasks, are disciplined about your spending cuts and direct your savings to pay off your debt (as per above), you should see your debt (slowly) decrease.
If you find, despite all that, you just can’t get a handle on your debt, you may want to seek out more hands-on assistance. Many charities (for example, the Salvation Army) not only have a food bank program (which would help you cut your spending on groceries if eligible) but also have financial counselors who can help you find a way out of your seemingly unsolvable situation.
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